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Mashallah, Shaykh Hasan Ali is an AMAZING SPEAKER…subhanallah he is SO down to earth, and makes lectures very easy to understand and enjoyable to listen to. PLEASE ADD MORE LECTURES FROM HASAN ALI…I noticed that there are only two on this site so far. May Allah reward him and bestow upon him Jannatul Firdaws, and upon all who believe and struggle to fulfill the deen. jazakallahu khairan
assalaam alaikum wa rahematullahi wa barakatuh ya aqi,
Jazakullah khair for delivering such a good lecture, may allah reward you and all and forgive our short comings.
brother, in your lecture you said refer riyad us salaheen or fazel e amaal (in here you said this got few daeef hadeeths, and a person can leave them and take the saheeh hadeeths) jazakullah khair for letting know the brothers, however there are so many hadeeth collections like Imaam bukhari and classified by Sheiqh Albani, Muslim and Tirmidhi etc…
I understand you might be follower of tableeq jamaat by your references (I might be wrong) however I guess by creating the sects we are dividing the umma and few times we also hide some great work from other scholars in Islaam. I love your lecture and I love you for the sake of allah, may allah guide us and follow the righteous path of quran and sunnah, love our sahabas, tabayeens and all the great scholars of islaam insha allah and make us one umma, take good and leave bad. Keep up the good work, Jazakullah khair!!!!
assalaam alikum brother!!!
Jazakullah kahir for your lecture, may allah reward you for the efforts, you mentioned in your lecture that, a women who is pregnant or upbringing her child will get the reward of Jihaad fee sabirillah, however I was checking the hadeeths the other day and I found the below information, could you please let me know is this hadeeth is MAWDOO???
Salaamah – the nurse of Ibraaheem, the son of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) – said: O Messenger of Allaah, you give glad tidings of all good to the men and you do not give glad tidings to women. He said: “Have your friends put you up to asking this?” She said: Yes, they told me (to ask). He said: “Doesn’t it please one of you that if she is pregnant from her husband and he was pleased with her, she will have a reward like that of one who fasts and prays qiyaam for the sake of Allaah. When her labour starts, neither the people of heaven nor the people of earth know what is hidden for her of delight, and when she gives birth, not one drop of her milk comes out and (her infant) does not suck once, but for each drop and each suck she will have one hasanah, and if he keeps her awake at night she will have a reward like that of freeing seventy slaves for the sake of Allaah? O Salaamah, do you know who I mean by this? It is the chaste and righteous women who are obedient to their husbands, those who are not ungrateful for kind treatment.”
Narrated by al-Tabaraani in al-Mu’jam al-Awsat (7/20); Abu Na’eem in Mu’jam al-Sahaabah (no. 7049); Ibn ‘Asaakir in Tareekh Dimashq (43/347); Ibn al-Jawzi in al-Mawdoo’aat (2/274) and others,
Via Hishaam ibn ‘Ammaar; Abu ‘Ammaar ibn Nusayr told me, from ‘Amr ibn Sa’eed al-Khawlaani, from Anas ibn Maalik.
Then al-Tabaraani said: This hadeeth was not narrated from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) except via this isnaad in which Hishaam ibn ‘Ammaar is the only one who narrated it. End quote.
This is a fabricated, false hadeeth. Ibn Hibbaan ruled it to be fabricated (mawdoo’) in al-Majrooheen (2/34), as did Ibn al-Jawzi in al-Mawdoo’aat (Baab Thawaab al-Mar’ah idha hamalat wa wada’at, 2/273).
Shaykh al-Albaani (may Allaah have mercy on him) said concerning it:
A fabricated hadeeth, with clear signs of being fabricated. The problem with the hadeeth is al-Khawlaani. Al-Dhahabi said: He narrated fabricated reports. Then he quoted this hadeeth. It was narrated by Ibn al-Jawzi in al-Mawdoo’aat (2/274) from the report of al-Tabaraani in al-Awsat, and he said: Ibn Hibbaan said: ‘Amr ibn Sa’eed who narrated this fabricated hadeeth from Anas: he should not be quoted except by way of giving an example of a fabricated hadeeth. al-Suyooti agreed with him in al-La’aali’ (2/175). It was quoted via al-Khawlaani by Ibn Mandah in al-Ma’rifah (2/329/2) and also by al-Hasan ibn Sufyaan in his Musnad, and also in al-Fayd. End quote.
Al-Silsilah al-Da’eefah (no. 2055).
Anyone who wants to study the Prophet’s hadeeth concerning the virtue of a woman obeying her husband and looking after him should refer to the book by Imam al-Mundhiri entitled al-Targheeb wa’l-Tarheeb. In part three (p. 31) he has a chapter entitled Targheeb al-Zawj fi’l-Wafa’ bi Haqq Zawjatihi wa Husn ‘Ashratiha, wa’l-Mar’ah bi Haqq Zawjiha wa Taa’atihi wa Tarheebuha min Isqaatihi wa Mukhaalafatihi (Encouraging the husband to fulfil his wife’s rights and treat her kindly, and (encouraging) the wife to fulfil her husband’s rights and obey him, and warning her against neglecting his rights and disobeying him).
In this chapter he compiled all the ahaadeeth that have to do with this topic, most of which are saheeh, but some of them are da’eef (weak). The one who wants to read only the reports which the scholars classed as saheeh may read the book called Saheeh al-Targheeb wa’l-Tarheeb by Shaykh al-Albaani (2/193), and read the same chapter from which the da’eef ahaadeeth have been excluded.
And Allaah knows best.